Recollections

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January 02, 1971

Recollections of the Vidyadhara, the Vajra Regent, H.H. the 16th Karmapa, Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche, and others

First meetings, instructions, transmissions, teachings over time and many personal exchanges

Recollection

First meeting

Kathryn Butterfield

First meeting with the Vidyadhara, a hand, warmth and consequences.

Refuge

Joseph Parent

A recollection of his refuge vow and a question posed to the Vidyadhara about how he finds the names.

Soft and sharp

Lyle Weinstein

A description of his refuge name and first question to the Vidyadhara about aggression, the Vidyadhara's physical response, and pith instruction.

Warm and Sharp

Lyle Weinstein

An interaction with the Vajra Regent demonstrating these qualities, emphasis on Sharp.

Pith drama instruction

Robert Krupnick

An exchange, also physical, with the Vidyadhara after a talk at the Nine Yanas Seminar in San Francisco in May 1973

DIving, no thought

Lyle Weinstein

A kasung shift with a shock

Snowstorm and Deja Vu

Lyle Weinstein

Driving with the Vajra Regent in a storm and and a question

A boxing glove evening and liberation

Will Ryken

Two stories:

A Kasung shift with the Vajra Regent and a profound teaching over time to him from the Vidyadhara

Go back

Lyle Weinstein

First meeting with the Vidyadhara in 1972 and advice about how to proceed with his life.

Appointed, retired and transported

Robert Krupnick, Joseph Parent

A recollection of the Vidyadhara's approach to a particular student's appointments (correct date is 1979), and an example of how he transcended time and space in communicating, with an additional commentary by Joseph Parent.

Drala and the Vidyadhara

Marie Barrett October 10, 2025

Interaction between the Vidyadhara and Drala

The 16th Karmapa in New York City

Randy Sunday

An unexpected guest and their interactions with His Holiness and his monks.

With her Father

Elizabeth Hale-Garland

At a Black Crown ceremony in Los Angeles.

Smoking

Joseph Parent

A group gathering where the Vajra Regent's behavior contrasted with the others there, and his response when asked.

Stories and Devotion

Lyle Weinstein

An encounter with Tsokni Rinpoche and the understanding of devotion

Until Then

Joseph Parent

An answer to a question

Black Air 1

Lyle Weinstein

After meditation instruction during a Shambhala Training Level

Black Air 2

Robert Krupnick

At the 1976 Seminary

Pea Shooter Immovable

Lyle Weinstein

A prank played by the Vidyadhara at the 1975 Seminary and how it settled out

Mahayana Feast Immovable

Robert Krupnick

After the Mahayana section of the 1976 Seminary, a feast experiment and later surprise.

Seminary Prep

Robert Krupnick

After a discussion of humor at the 1975 Seminary, a follow-up. Before participants arrived at the 1976 Seminary at a hotel in Wisconsin, there were pranks and relaxation.

April Fire

Lady Lila Rich

Pranking a director

The Forgotten One

Randy Sunday

A contemplation of all the Vajra Regent carried on his shoulders, and the stages of adding more with each visit of His Holiness the 16th Karmapa

Pregnant April

Lyle Weinstein

A couple's interview with the Vajra Regent

Doubt

Steve Roth

A question from a kasung and the response

Leaning in, a qualities game

Lyle Weinstein and Lady Lila Rich

A game played with the Vidyadhara, Lady Rich, the Vajra Regent and dinner guests, and the particular turn that evening.

Cold Sweat

Danny Mann

What the Vidyadhara wanted

Arrival

Mark Smith

Recalling the Vajra Regent's comment on the serious day of the arrival of the Vidyadhara's Kudung at Karmê Chöling.

We're not going to see anything like that again

Jon Fabbro

Another remark from the Vajra Regent, upon seeing Jon Fabbro at Karme Choling before the cremation of the Vidyadhara.

Look Again

Will Ryken

At the Kalapa Assembly in Bedford Springs, PA, a Kusung poetry evening recollected by the Kusung for the evening

Tulku

Randy Sunday

An interaction between the Vidyadhara and a student, about who the Vajra Regent Is.

You don't have to do that

Jon Fabbro with Jim Colosi

Serving dinner to the Vajra Regent and Joseph Parent, a simple instruction to Joe, with commentary on the Vajra Regent's tone and delivery.

You Don't 2

Joseph Parent

A recollection of being jerked to the present unexpectedly - version 2

Don't Get Caught

Danny Mann

Two recollections on non-attachment, one a direct instruction and the other an example told by the Vajra Regent

Nightmares

Ree Katrak

Her child has nightmares, the Vajra Regent responds

Tantrum

Robert Krupnick

A young child's tantrum at the Berkeley Dharmadhatu

Beeline

Lyle Weinstein

The Vajra Regent relates to Lyle's father at his wedding

Dislike

Ree Katrak

At her wedding, a clear attitude from the Vajra Regent

Flower Power

Andrew Heubner

Told to Andrew by Emily Bower, a display - at a Level IV Shambhala Training in California - of a restless environment before a late talk and the gesture that transformed. Regrets that there is no video!

Tooth Pain

Danny Mann

A tooth ache and group energy transformed by the Vajra Regent

A Great Translator

Lyle Weinstein with Robert Krupnick

Several recollections on how the Vajra Regent made the Vidyadhara's teachings clear to us, how he learned to do that and how he understood teachings so immediately.

24-7

Andrew Heubner

A recollection of how the connection with the Vajra Regent blossomed, occurred and confirmed itself.

Maitri Staff Meeting

Joseph Parent

Narayana relates to a meeting

Old Poet Reminder

Joseph Parent

The Vidyadhara with Alan Ginsberg and the Vajra Regent visiting a poet in New York City

Military Man

Robert Krupnick, with Jon Fabbro Online

An alert Kasung and the Vidyadhara's precise response, from Robert Krupnick.

Becoming Kusung

Danny Mann

A recollection of the Vajra Regent's generosity and kindness preparing him to be accepted as a full Kusung.

Kusung Events

Lyle Weinstein

Virtually the same approach to basic duties by both the Vajra Regent and the Vidyadhara at different times.

Change Everything

Robert Krupnick

A report that turned around on the spot

Magic and Transformation

Robert Krupnick, David McCarthy, Mark Smith

David McCarthy's recollection of a visitation at the 1976 Seminary, the Vidyadhara's singing the Shambhala Anthem in tune for a few bars(!), his re-entering his body after a retreat by Mark Smith, and the party in Berkeley after His Holiness departed from San Francisco after his first US visit, all describing the Vidyadhara's various transformations from seeming physical difficulties and obstacles

A Visit in Los Angeles

Ed Zaron

A journey to meeting the Vajra Regent and his participation in a visit

Is your name...

Jackie Saunders

A description of two of her meetings with the Vidyadhara, the first in Los Angeles the first time they met, and the second at a Public talk in San Francisco. Both are shared to demonstrate the Vidyadhara's keen interest in English customs - a true Anglophile.

Minestrone

Mark Smith

Parallel comments from the Vidyadhara and the Vajra Regent

Bringing in And Paving the Way

Ed Zaron and Ree Katrak

A description of two entries to the path and how others helped

Relaxing Day

Robert Krupnick

In Kensington, CA in 1976

Relaxing Abisheka

Robert Krupnick

Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche giving a Vajrayogini Abisheka at the Berkeley Dharmadhatu in 1976.

Falling Asleep

Danny Mann

Helping the Vajra Regent

Sun Valley and a Question

Joseph Parent

On a drive to play golf, a question and response

Losing and Finding 1

Danny Mann

A Kusung awareness lesson and a profound imprint

Losing and Finding 2

Lady Lila Rich

Losing a ring designed by the Vidyadhara

Losing, finding and giving 3

Lyle Weinstein

The Jewel of the Trungpas, lost and found

Playfullness

Randy Sunday

Two recollections involving Max King, one filling in for the Vidyadhara, and the other a black rabbit

Meeting

Danny Mann

Mr. Mann's first encounters with the Vajra Regent, then Narayana.

After meeting, a car ride much later

Danny Mann

An elaborate journey to becoming the Vajra Regent's close student, and why the Vajra Regent had to act.

A grilling

Robert Krupnick

Examining assistant directors, the Vajra Regent pushes hard.

Don't Fight or Move, and Take the Heat

Joseph Parent with Robert Krupnick

Instructions on handling conflict, not leaning on the Vajra Regent's words and being the messenger

Don't Move and much more

Robert Krupnick, Joseph Parent, Randy Sunday and Lady Lila Rich

Instructions for a new ambassador on view and conduct, having one's photo taken or being interviewed by the media, the Vajra Regent's early instructions from the Vidyadhara, and a visit to a strip club with Tarthang Tulku, the Vidyadhara and the Vajra Regent.

Time to Work

Lady Lila Rich

A further reflection on the Vajra Regent's administrative role.

Push

Marie Barrett

The Vajra Regent helps make a decision including the consequences

Where is...

Joseph Parent

An interview with the Vidyadhara with his skill in cutting through a trip, even a subtle one

Letter to Eugenia

Read by Joseph Parent

From the Vajra Regent

Early

Lady Lila Rich

A description of the Vidyadhara's early days with students, the environment and atmosphere

Lighting Instruction

Robert Krupnick

A first Level I talk with a friend

Leave them one way, not another

Joseph Parent

Teaching instructions from the Vidyadhara

No Banana

Chris Randol

Chris Randol's recollection of moving to Boulder and going to an event at Karma Dzong for the first time

Early Shambhala

Lady Lila Rich

In San Francisco with EST, and how the word "Levels" for Shambhala Training were discussed and decided upon

Party No Dogma

Robert Krupnick

A recollection of the kind of adjustments the Sangha made when entering the Shambhala teachings in the early years

Consensus

Robert Krupnick

A recollection of a meeting between the Shambhala and Dharmadhatu Executive committees at a Dharmadhatu

Charlatan

Lyle Weinstein

A poem found the in the Vidyadhara's office

Black Crown and Terma

Lady Lila Rich

A Black Crown in San Francisco and the first Shambhala Terma

Encouragement and Thomas Merton

Randy Sunday

A recollection of Merton's stories about the Vidyadhara and how recollecting refreshes memory

Caught at the Movies

Danny Mann

A Kusung's night off. At Shantigar, 1989-1990. The first of three reflections and experiences with the Vajra Regent and movies.

Seeing Buckaroo Banzai

Kathryn Butterfield

With the Vajra Regent

B movies

Lady Lila Rich, Joseph Parent. Zeb Zuckerberg, Robert Krupnick

Manchu Eagle Murder Caper Mystery, Evil Dead 2, the characters played by sangha, and the particular attention while watching movies demanded by the Vajra Regent, as well as an experience of being at a movie with the Vajra Regent and a contemplation by Lady Rich.

A Confrontation

Lyle Weinstein

Between the Vajra Regent and an experienced student

Drinking Lesson

Danny Mann

In Ojai at Shantigar, 1989-1990

Taking Responsibility

Lady Lila Rich

A recollection of a difficult situation in the administration and the Vajra Regent's approach

One's own Sanity

Robert Krupnick

A recollection of being on the spot, tension, softening and appreciation of the meaning over a lifetime

Waiting with the Vajra Regent

Robert Krupnick

An early recollection of waiting for H.H. the 16th Karmapa with the Vajra Regent

Just Ushers

Randy Sunday

Preparations for the Kalachacra given by Kalu Rinpoche in New York City

Don't You

Joseph Parent

An instruction for a personal habit

Staircase

Danny Mann

A clothing crisis in detailed context, having been resolved with the Vajra Regent's assistance; An ensuing surprise encounter with the Vidyadhara and the Vajra Regent's comment that profoundly imprinted.

Holding Hands

Randy Sunday

L.A. Swat helping the 16th Karmapa

Nickname...

Danny Mann

How Mr. Mann got his nickname.

Dinner and Golf

Marty Miller New York City and elswhere

Several stories of being with the Vajra Regent, his comments and instructions.

First Meeting by Golf

Ed Hanczaryk

Ed's first meeting with the Vajra Regent playing golf

First Golfing, all the balls

Joseph Parent

First time playing golf with the Vajra Regent,

I got It 1

Joseph Parent

Recollection of becoming a director of Karma Dzong, an overstep and correction

I got it 2

Danny Mann

Another angle of getting it

Too Many 1

Lyle Weinstein

A different Director of Karma Dzong Halifax appointment story

Too Many 2

Lyle Weinstein, Robert Krupnick

A seminary appointment choice along the same lines as the previous recollection, and a different appointment advisory playing out

Admonition

Joseph Parent

Another recollection of a director of Karma Dzong and how not to help volunteers

Big Admin

Robert Krupnick

Being appointed a "Director" and the actuality

It's a Deal

Joseph Parent

An complaint from a director of Karma Dzong and negotiation on how each other would improve.

What were You

Danny Mann

An addendum to the previous story on taking on one's own karma

Feedback

Lyle Weinstein

An example of well-meant but perceptions and consequences

Fearless Golf

Ed Hanczaryk

In Scotland for golf and a talk with unexpected guests

The Masters during a Talk

Robert Krupnick and Joseph Parent

The Vajra Regent was giving a talk during Jack Nicklaus famous Master's Tournament win at 46 years old on April 13, 1986.

Fearless Talk

Robert Krupnick

A recollection of the Vidyadhara's early talks in the big tent at Rocky Mountain Dharma Center in 1973

Shaving and Teaching

Danny Mann

An exchange in the bathroom

Stick and Relax

Lyle Weinstein

A bathroom story of an out-of sorts kusung and the Vajra Regent's dissolving of it

With Thrangu Rinpoche

Joseph Parent

After the Vajra Regent entered parinirvana

Diary and Care

Lyle Weinstein

A description of the publishing of the V. V. Thrangu Rinpoche's diary and his specific editing

No Difference

Robert Krupnick

A couple's interview with Situ Rinpoche on their difficult decision, his advice and comments after

Anger and Release

Marth Schoenmann

A recollection of the Vajra Regent in a Q & A describing the Vidyadhara's anger, it's release and how that became a support

Anger and Encampment

Lady Lila Rich, Joseph Parent

A description of the Dorje Kasung principles and the Vidyadhara's wrath at a Kasung Encampment at Rocky Mountain Dharma Center because of the lack of understanding of non-aggression on that occasion

Anger and Assembly Tonglen

Lady Lila Rich, Robert Krupnick

Recalling a guided Tonglen session at the 1981 Kalapa Assembly

Everyone a Kasung

Robert Krupnick

A description of how the entire Bay Area Sangha was conscripted to help with the Dalai Lama's first visit to the US, the result of some training in gentleness and non-aggression

Breath

Lyle Weinstein

A reception with a line-up and the Vajra Regent's take on it

Why Change

Robert Krupnick

An exercise between Situ Rinpoche and a student on visualization practice

Fidget

Joseph Parent

Meditation Instruction

Songs

Danny Mann

The Vajra Regent's grasp of music and his singing

Orchestra

Robert Krupnick

An orchestra with the Vidyadhara and the Vajra Regent

Music Heard

Lyle Weinstein, Robert Krupnick

The Vajra Regent's listening at a dinner and at a concert

Shantigar

Joseph Parent

The place of the Vajra Regent's last retreat: How the Vajra Regent communicated what was needed and how it was found

The Cadillac comes to California

Lyle Weinstein

A journey from Halifax to California, and a startling episode entering the US

A Recollection: Benefitting Beings

Lyle Weinstein December 22, 1981 Boulder, Colorado

Calligraphy Lesson

Joseph Parent Bellingham, Washington

A short practice instruction

During a Class

Gregg Conlee January 23, 2023 Online

Spoken during the Vajrayogini Book Class discussion of January 22, 2023, on visualizing oneself as the yidam, one's shyness around that and the Vidyadhara. From a conversation with the Vajra Regent in 1976 during the visit of the Sixteenth Karmapa Rangjung Rikpe Dorje, in San Francisco.

"Emptiness and Compassion" a kusung recollection

Joseph Parent January 30, 1987 Halifax, Montreal, Boulder

Give Up

Danny Mann

On a walk with the Vajra Regent

Photograph

Are you absolutely sure?

This cannot be undone.